#1: We started the seeds way, way too late. I imagine that with some vigilance and care, most of the plants will survive. I'm really thinking that next year I'll want to start the seeds much, much sooner than late May. This is nuts.
#2: Root veg row distances can probably be ignored, as long as you pay attention to the nutrients and watering of the soil, and particularly when growing them in a container.
#3: Hypothetically you can grow most veg (except roots) in haybales of all things. If there's a lot of trouble with parasites attacking the roots, this might not be a bad way to go. Someone has a couple of pictures posted of their experiment. If it works I may have to give that a try next year (they're trying it with tomatoes).
#4: You can grow your own dry beans. You'd think this would be obvious, but not so much with my steel-sieve brain. I may have to add this to the list of other stuff to grow!
I don't want to ask a hundred questions right away, for fear that I could learn more over time and by poking around more on the 'net. I'm liking the community there so far, and I'd rather not irritate folks by flooding the forums with threads about X, Y, and Z. Maybe I'll find another forum to poke at that I don't care as much about?
If I do end up crossing a few varieties, I'd feel guilty sending seeds off to someone else claiming them to be something specific. If my jalapenos got crossed with the banana peppers, would I even want to save them just for personal use??
I may remember other ideas later on, once I've gotten actual sleep and possibly after I've taken a look at a few things. There are a couple of books that I'm really getting interested in that I may have to pick up when we're at a store (or at the least look at, and then buy on Amazon) that will probably answer a few of my questions and open up just as many.